To forgive, or not.....

We were some friends together here the other day, and got to talk about forgiven, and it is really strange how different we looked at the word FORGIVE
I am a very forgiven person, because I have decided to be....
I must ad ,that nothing have ever happened to my love once, (thank god)and I might not feel the same way if that should happened, but I will not live my life after "what if"

I think we put different things into the word, because I forgive, doesn't mean I think it was the right thing, and if a person have done something bad and I forgive the person, doesn't necessary mean that I want to continue to see or be friends with the person......

Raising a son on my own from he was eight, I have told him that I can forgive EVERYTHING, (as long as he doesn't come a racist)I might be angry, or sad, but I will forgive him no matter what, and love him no matter what, again, he have never given me a reason to change my mind,and I like to think that he couldn't
I am not saying that ha can't make me angry, ohhh he known what to say and do, but I am never angry for to long, don't really have the red hair temper I should have.......

I think that forgive is a thing you do for yourself, to feel better inside, in my world, anyway.....